surprise!
The question: I have arranged a group activity between my wife and I and another married couple, the wife of the other married couple helped arrange everything but the husband doesn’t know, we definitely making sure to include him in the actual activity. My wife needed some time and space to wrap her head around it but she is now on board with a “try anything once” attitude, the other wife is all good to go providing there’s no cross penetration. Now… as everyone is gearing to go (tomorrow) I’m having a major back pedal worrying about all sorts of stuff, like will it change the group dynamic and risk the friendship. I’m now wondering why on earth I started this.
One side if my brain is saying man up and do it.
The other is saying..panic panic panic panic!
What Would Captain Jack Sparrow Do?
Listen to the answer on 5FM >Swinging on 5FM
How come the dude is unawares? None cross penetration… Sounds like chew but don’t swallow scenario … Is it then worth it… What about being in the moment? Touch, crouch, pause… Engage!
March 2, 2012 at 4:29 pm