I love my boyfriend so so so much, we’ve know each other for five years, been together for two. He treats me well and we respect each other a lot and I love sex with him. Here is the question: He wants me to swallow as this will prove my love for him. Sometimes he jokes about it, but I know he wants me to. I just can’t! I want to gag with it in my mouth. What do I say to him?
Gagging for an answer
You say: Darling, if the measure of my loving you is me swallowing your junk, the measure of your love for me is if you’d do the same. cum in a cup and swallow it all.
it’s such a random (not to mention emotionally manipulative) correlation to draw.
Personally, i’m not so much about swallowing unless i’m deep throating (then it’s so far back you can’t taste anything or even feel it going down) or i’m really, really, really into a guy. then i just want to swallow them whole. but that’s rare and only really happened once. i can get why guys like the whole ‘swallow my spunk’ vibe – it’s sexy when someone is so fucking into giving you sexual pleasure that they just want to suck every inch of you in. it’s very affirming and accepting, and really any form of disgust in ANY way and at ANY body part or sexual function is a real buzzkill and can make even the most confident person feel a little off.
but to do the ‘if you love me thing’ is kak. people have different tastes, pleasures and enjoyments. he should accept yours i think. maybe you can figure out together if it’s a visual thing for him in which case maybe do the side shot.
usually i pull away just as they cum and have them cum kinda to the side of my mouth. there’ll be some cum in your mouth and you’ll taste it etc, but there won’t that whole wack of jack you swallow. and you still look like you had mouth full of cum. cos seriously, most dudes i know are in no position to be paying attention to anything after a good blowjob, let alone follow the details of where their spunk landed.
also, check his diet. what dudes eat affects the taste of their cum.
wrote a column on fellatio and swallowing – check it out [clickety click]