5FM Podcasts

Unwanted nudies on 5FM

The question: Dotty what does it mean why shy girls send nude photos and it’s unrequested … I never asked or anything. From confused. Listen to the answer on 5FM > I’m getting unwanted nudies from a girl *** hahaha this was a cock-up on the question, but totally funny… i was going to post [...]

Pregnant girlfriend on 5FM

The question: I have been dating this girl for about three months and about 5 weeks ago we found out she is pregnant. She recently told me that she heard having sex in the first 3 months of being pregnant can be harmful to the baby. Regardless if this is true I can respect her [...]

Addiction on 5FM

The question: my childhood sweetheart and I have been on and off for the last 8 years, we’ve had a consistent relationship for about a year, got engaged and got our own place… everything was perfect and i was happy… but then his mother and her boyfriend decided to move in with us, it was [...]

No sex on 5FM

The question: I’ve been with my girlfriend for about 7 yrs now and the sex is as dry as the kalahari. Sex was great for the first 3 yrs but then it just disappeared. She doesn’t ever kiss me the way she used to or touch me in that way. I have to basically force [...]

Friends with benefits on 5FM

The question: How do I broach the subject of being friends with benefits with someone? Listen to the 5fm #thedotspot answer >>Friends with benefits on 5FM *** if you’re having sex, then hanging out, going for drinks/dinner, movies … if you make popcorn and use each other’s toothbrush … if you sleep over and have [...]

BFs and strip clubs on 5FM

The question: My boyfriend wants to take me to a strip show but not just me and him with a group of his friends. Should i go with him? Listen to the 5fm #thedotspot answer >> BFs and strip clubs *** this was a fun question. it reminded me of a column i wrote last [...]

Friends with benefits

Hi there Im currently friends with benefits (this includes going out for dinner/movies/dancing, cuddling, her staying over multiple nights a week, etc), with an ex of mine. We have a long complicated history, and I want to somehow make it more. We have spoken about becoming more, but she said im not her type, and [...]

I’m HIV+ and had unprotected sex

Hi Dot I’ve gotten myself into a right mess. I’m HIV positive and I’m in a very new new relationship. Here’s the problem: we’ve already had unprotected sex. I don’t know how to tell him and I don’t know what his status is. I know this is really serious and I feel terrible. What do [...]

I’m married and in love with my girl friend

Hi Dot I need your help. I am a happily married woman and sex life with my husband is great. My problem is that I have a very close girl friend and for sometime now i have been having sexual thoughts about her. We were having drinks a while ago and we got onto the [...]

My GF mouths off about her exes

Hi Dot. So my girlfriend and I are pretty serious and don’t get me wrong, I love her to bits. This is, however, my 1st serious relationship and she is the 4th girl I’ve slept with. She on the other hand has had many many boyfriends and has openly told me about hem, and about who she [...]