5FM Podcasts

Breaking up on 5FM

The question: I’ve been with this woman for bout 3 months now and things are ok. we don’t fight or shout at each other. but I just don’t feel the relationship going anywhere and I feel like I’m wasting her and my time by dragging this on. how do i end it when there doesn’t [...]

Swinging on 5FM

The question: I have arranged a group activity between my wife and I and another married couple, the wife of the other married couple helped arrange everything but the husband doesn’t know, we definitely making sure to include him in the actual activity.  My wife needed some time and space to wrap her head around [...]

jealousy on 5FM

The question: Please, I need your help. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and ±8mnths. The problem: he is still friends with his ex ex girlfriend. That is a big problem in our relationship because we both know that she is not over him. Everytime he goes to his parents house [...]

Unwanted nudies on 5FM

The question: Dotty what does it mean why shy girls send nude photos and it’s unrequested … I never asked or anything. From confused. Listen to the answer on 5FM > I’m getting unwanted nudies from a girl *** hahaha this was a cock-up on the question, but totally funny… i was going to post [...]

Pregnant girlfriend on 5FM

The question: I have been dating this girl for about three months and about 5 weeks ago we found out she is pregnant. She recently told me that she heard having sex in the first 3 months of being pregnant can be harmful to the baby. Regardless if this is true I can respect her [...]

Addiction on 5FM

The question: my childhood sweetheart and I have been on and off for the last 8 years, we’ve had a consistent relationship for about a year, got engaged and got our own place… everything was perfect and i was happy… but then his mother and her boyfriend decided to move in with us, it was [...]

No sex on 5FM

The question: I’ve been with my girlfriend for about 7 yrs now and the sex is as dry as the kalahari. Sex was great for the first 3 yrs but then it just disappeared. She doesn’t ever kiss me the way she used to or touch me in that way. I have to basically force [...]

Friends with benefits on 5FM

The question: How do I broach the subject of being friends with benefits with someone? Listen to the 5fm #thedotspot answer >>Friends with benefits on 5FM *** if you’re having sex, then hanging out, going for drinks/dinner, movies … if you make popcorn and use each other’s toothbrush … if you sleep over and have [...]

BFs and strip clubs on 5FM

The question: My boyfriend wants to take me to a strip show but not just me and him with a group of his friends. Should i go with him? Listen to the 5fm #thedotspot answer >> BFs and strip clubs *** this was a fun question. it reminded me of a column i wrote last [...]

Friends with benefits

Hi there Im currently friends with benefits (this includes going out for dinner/movies/dancing, cuddling, her staying over multiple nights a week, etc), with an ex of mine. We have a long complicated history, and I want to somehow make it more. We have spoken about becoming more, but she said im not her type, and [...]