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postsecret pic of the week :: i am the guy in the speedo
i was vehemently anti-speedo until i met an ex of mine who was all over that shit. while he wasn’t fat, his sentiments were exactly the same. they made him feel sexy and he got a better tan. who the fuck am i to argue with that? i’m not exactly gisele bundchen and i LOVE [...]
A NSFW hello to Monday :: Hot Queer Porn (take 2)
oh my shit i LOVED this site. HotQueerPornFest is actually a festival that is being planned in chicago and, i assume, this site is a precursor to that. i’ve come to understand ‘queer’ to be basically an umbrella term for any expression of sexuality that isn’t slotted into a depiction of sex and sexuality as the domain [...]
A NSFW hello to Monday :: Vaginas of the world
Vaginas. so many shapes, so many sizes. i can’t really say what inspired this particular NSFW. but i have written in my diary on this date: ‘VAGINA PICS. THAT IS ALL.’ don’t know when I wrote that. but who am i to argue. so went on the hunt to find a nice site that would [...]
Postsecret pic of the week :: eating disorders
almost seven years go i wrote a small blog post on the topic of anorexia in the book nervous conditions, but ran out of time and thinks and ended with this: “…could write more about this, but i’m tired and i’m meeting b for coffee. so. good bye.” well, seven years later, here’s the ‘more [...]
Postsecret pic of the week :: cum stains and bum scratches, so many questions
oh i did enjoy this. hahahaha. i suspect that is a photo that could be taken of me. i’m not super elegant at the best of times. someone asked me the other day how they should recognise me (business meet before the ‘coming out’) and the easiest way to describe myself was as the person [...]
T-Rex trying
I love me some yoga. But, it turns out, my arms are actually a little short compared to the rest of my body. So there’s the one very simple resting pose where you lie on your back and hug your knees to your chest and then, quote unquote, wrap your arms around your legs, grasping [...]
Kate Middleton and Boobgate :: Why her boobs should matter to you
Dorothy Black can’t simply brush off the topless pics scandal as mere celeb fluff. Here’s why. So now we know what Kate Middleton’s ta-tas look like. Wow. Yawn. Move on. Except I can’t. Not because the fact of them is noteworthy, but because of what this whole storm in a royal teacup says about us [...]
His semen controls your brain
This will either make you cry into your wine or start fixing for a baby room. Turns out your man’s semen could be making you ovulate. Researchers at the University of Saskatchewan have identified a hormone in semen that supposedly prompts the female brain to release hormones that stimulate ovulation. “It’s a finding that could [...]
A Look Inside A Vagina (For Educational Purposes Only *cough*)
one of the creepiest porn videos i ever watched wasn’t really porn at all. we were in taiwan and had one or three regular eateries, of which one was a fried rice hole in the wall restaurant. the friendly owner, concerned i suppose by our foreigness and proximity to sexually explicit homegrown materials, handed my [...]
Sex For Your Body Shape?
Does your figure determine what position you’ll enjoy most? Dorothy Black unpacks the new Men’s Health Sex Survey and finds she doesn’t fit into any category I have stared at this Men’s Health page now for at least 20 minutes. I’m looking at four body shapes and trying to decipher which I am. This is [...]
