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Til Monday!
Darlings. i’m offline til Monday the 6. I’m doing this: this is why [clickety click] (check out the video) til later plums. afrikaburn. here i come. dot oao
Postsecret pic of the week :: My first burn
ok. it’s not really a secret, but postsecret was boring and i really gleened nothing of interest from this week’s selection. (come ON people, get your dark sides fired up a little why don’tcha.) i’ll be online and blogging and tweeting at and with you til wednesday. i think. can’t decide if i’m leaving wednesday [...]
A NSFW hello to Monday :: Gordon Denman :: Love Sex
While the audience for hardcore yawn porn gets younger, there is a definite move toward broadening the available ‘slow porn’ or erotica in both film and photography, with a focus on ‘real couple’ connections. I just came across gordon denman, a photographer who’s brought out three books of photography called Love Sex. ‘Among the many [...]
postsecret pic of the week :: love padlocks and gay porn
where the trend of love (pad)locks started is still a bit of a mystery. some say china, some say italy, some even say serbia … whatever the case, it’s a really lovely tradition that has lovers locking these padlocks onto gates, fences, bridges and poles across the world, as a symbol of their everlasting love. [...]
Make Love Not Porn TV #MLNP #realworldsex
as i mentioned in the Dinner At Eight :: Is porn bad for sex podcast, i spoke to cindy gallop last week about her MakeLoveNotPorn project which ended up being quite a discussion about her new venture MakeLoveNotPorn.tv i’ll upload the interview once the article is out. cindy is quite something to talk to, in [...]
chemistry class in a bad movie
i saw another front cover of emily blunt today and decided that i would definitely have to stroke her face inappropriately and smell her if ever met her in really real life. also i imagine we’d go for tea or beer and laugh a lot and eat nachos and then i’d be shy because she’s [...]
postsecret pic of the week :: a wedding to remember
what an amazing weekend. cynics are quick to tell me that truly good relationships do not exist. that there are no marriages or long-term relationships that are truly happy or healthy. and while no one really knows what happens behind the closed doors of other people’s intimate relationships, i feel quite lucky to know so [...]
postsecret pic of the week :: heaven (+NSFW)
Don’t you think that looks a bit like table mountain from the v&a waterfront? it’s really the only reason i included this one. the rest were also a little humdrum though i liked the banana pancake one. check out the other postsecrets [clickety click] or scroll down for some kinda NSFW, but not really terribly [...]
the ‘why’ behind mr hardman
someone asked me today why i was still yadda yaddaing on about mr hardman. their take was, if i do what i do and can obviously (pfft) fuck anyone i want why don’t i just move right along on and be done with it. see. here’s the thing. being a sex writer doesn’t make you [...]
postsecret pic of the week :: voodoo
you know, i may be all hardcore and, like, screw valentines etc etc (check this post i did ages ago, the pics are pretty awesome [there's a click-through at the end of the post]), but, really, i am quite a romantic… or at least i like honest romantic gestures and believe that the REAL magic [...]
