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Bnaughty Unleashed
If you’re looking for a discreet but kinky public play toy, Dorothy Black recommends the Bnaughty Unleashed. First impressions Bswish makes very sexy toys and my first impressions are always positive, and it was no different with the Bnaughty Unleashed. To be honest, though, I’d never really seen the point of an insertable vibrating egg, as the [...]
Hand jobs for girls (aka fingering)
Dorothy Black explores the ins and outs of a good hand job. There is a reason girls like musicians. I knew why in practice, but not in theory until very recently. The Don and I were having a heart-to-heart about the fine art of hand jobs and he explained to me that musicians are so [...]
The Fancy for your fanny
Dorothy Black tests out a rabbit-style vibe that doesn’t have her running for the door… First impressions Yeah, look, I have GOT to stop equating my vibes to children’s TV characters, but seriously I saw this lovely lilac rabbit, the Fancy from Smile, and just thought ‘HEIMLICH!’. For serious. Of course, then I thought ‘ORGASM!’ [...]
Singles sex explained
What’s the difference between booty calls and casual sex? Does a one night stand come with breakfast? Dorothy Black maps out the terms. And meanings. So someone asked me to write a column about all the different kinds of single sex you get. What the set-ups are, what the expectations are. But the thing is, [...]
Sexual abuse :: Project Unbreakable
Dorothy Black talks sexual abuse and Project Unbreakable You would think, given what I do, that overshare should come as second nature to me. If you’ve read my column and blog regularly enough, you will know when I first had sex, how many people I’ve slept with, what I think of one night stands and [...]
We’ve finally found the (internal) clit!
With 8 000 nerve endings and almost as much erectile tissue as a penis, Dorothy Black discovers the true wonders of the internal clitoris I only found out about my clit last year. Well. The whole of it at least. The whole other part that is attached to the little bean I so know and [...]
extreme fetish
If you ever thought your threesome fantasies were rough, Dorothy Black shows you where the REAL kink lies. I have never had anyone ask me to pee on them. Or choke them. Or wrap myself up in bandages Kegadol style. I find this mildly disturbing. What kind of self-respecting sex writer has never been confronted [...]
Getting real about HIV and STDs
Dorothy Black is over the stigmatisation of HIV/Aids and other sexually transmitted diseases. Sometimes the hardest thing to do is to be honest. Especially when it comes to sex. At best we withhold information about something small, like not telling your partner you have a fetish for gimps in latex, at worst we lie about [...]
Virtual sex sucks
Sexting, web-cam sex, chat sex … Dorothy Black prefers the REAL DEAL. Besides, it requires less multitasking. There are four little words in the area of sexual relations that make me cringe. Four tiny words of such magnificent cliché that I die just a little bit on the inside when I hear (or read) them. [...]
More snuggles for more sex
Want to up your game in the bedroom? Start cuddling more outside of the bedroom, says Dorothy Black. ‘You know what I miss the most being single?’ I whined to asked Bunny the other day. ‘Cuddles. I miss cuddles the most.’ Bunny snorted. ‘Pfft. You know what I miss the most being in a long-term [...]
