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Can men and women be just friends?
Dorothy Black finds out that platonic relations between the sexes may be nothing more than wishful thinking I found myself in a rather uncomfortable position at a small downtown soiree the other night. We were well into the evening and enjoying the generous quantity of drinks and canapés, when I found myself cornered by Irate Wife [...]
Crazy dating behaviours of men
Dorothy Black lists five crazy dating habits of men and wonders why they just can’t be normal They say you learn by experience and if that’s the case I’m about to achieve my masters in dating. I’ve done my own research and studied the experience of other field operatives. What I have learnt is that the [...]
Mr Muscle, rimming and anal :: I take the plunge
Thought about anal sex but not sure whether to go ahead with it? Dorothy Black loses her virginity to the m-arse-terful Mr Muscle It started off innocently enough. We were still toying with the idea of hooking up when he texted me with: ‘Is there anywhere you don’t like being kissed’. I mulled this over [...]
Rape is not about sex or Reality called and it asks to please bring some science
since this column was first published on Women24 almost two weeks ago the following has happened (and this is in brief): 2nd woman stabbed to death by husband in same neighbourhood 75 year-old crèche owner beaten to death by her own sons. 2 year-old girl raped and left for dead by father’s best friend 91 year-old grandmother raped. 12 men gang rape [...]
What do you do with bad sex?
Dorothy Black thinks it’s better to walk away from bad sex than work to make chemistry work Here’s a line I hate: Bad sex is better than no sex. Someone offered that one to me as consolation after my 20-minute whine about the cringe-sex fest 2012 turned out to be for me. Honey, if you [...]
Sex in public spaces :: Are you an exhibitionist?
Ladies, Dorothy Black wants to know if public sex acts and nudity also turns you on? I have a voyeur friend who gets his kicks from watching people fuck. Or imaginging watching people fuck. We have one of those long-term flirts that simmer but never really boils. I sent him a text the other day… [...]
Kate Middleton and Boobgate :: Why her boobs should matter to you
Dorothy Black can’t simply brush off the topless pics scandal as mere celeb fluff. Here’s why. So now we know what Kate Middleton’s ta-tas look like. Wow. Yawn. Move on. Except I can’t. Not because the fact of them is noteworthy, but because of what this whole storm in a royal teacup says about us [...]
Is sexism just a guy thing?
Slamming campaigns that reduce women to nothing more than body parts as sexist… Isn’t this just a biology problem we all have, asks Dorothy Black? Height. Some bulk/shoulders. Open face. Eyes. Hands. Body hair. Crotch. There. I said it. That’s what I notice, in order, when I check a guy out. Why this mini-confession? Well, [...]
The Swan Clutch
Score! Dorothy Black finds a plaything that strengthens and satisfies. First impressions Honestly, when I first saw the Swan Clutch I was a bit, ja, ok, another Ben Wa ball type goody to slot into the whole 50 Shades ra-ra. Whatevs. All Swan products are beautifully designed and crafted, so I wasn’t too taken by [...]
Air Sex: Would you EVER?!
Fancy yourself as a bit of an exhibitionist? Want to simulate your sexploits in front of an audience? Then this, dear friends, will definitely thrill you! Enter the Air Sex World Championships. While you can’t exactly rock out with your cock out (contestants are expected to remain fully clothed) you can mimic just about everything [...]
