sex
Hand jobs for girls (aka fingering)
Dorothy Black explores the ins and outs of a good hand job. There is a reason girls like musicians. I knew why in practice, but not in theory until very recently. The Don and I were having a heart-to-heart about the fine art of hand jobs and he explained to me that musicians are so [...]
come into my parlour said the spider to the fly
thought i’d give you a heads up on recent developments. The Master last week, i tweeted that Master D presented me with a contract of sorts. if i agree to it, we will enter into a D/s play for a month. i will be assigned tasks leading up to an evening of … well, i [...]
A NSFW hello to monday :: i love car sex
I learnt how to have sex in cars when I was still living with my parents. My bf at the time lived in Hout Bay and I in Bellville and I didn’t have a car. So he’d trek the million miles to fetch me and we’d hang out his parents’ place for the weekend. They [...]
A NSFW hello to Monday :: fuck yeah foot fetish
it’s weird posting a NSFW that is totally not within my framework of sexy, so doing something on foot fetishes was tricky. what does posting a picture of a green painted toenail say about me in the world of foot love? what inspired it was a convo with dolce who seems to be attracting foot [...]
Singles sex explained
What’s the difference between booty calls and casual sex? Does a one night stand come with breakfast? Dorothy Black maps out the terms. And meanings. So someone asked me to write a column about all the different kinds of single sex you get. What the set-ups are, what the expectations are. But the thing is, [...]
Postsecret pic of the week :: 20 years
imagine… and that’s not a too-far-off scenario. tragic. anyway. the rest were oddly both hectic and boring. so worried i’m getting jaded. check them out [clickety click]. dot
postsecret pic of the week :: fingers
whenever i meet someone for the first time i wonder what they would be like to sleep with, or what they look and sound like when they orgasm. if the person i’m meeting is just a person, the thought is fleeting and i don’t consider it again. but if i’m actually attracted to the person [...]
Unwanted nudies on 5FM
The question: Dotty what does it mean why shy girls send nude photos and it’s unrequested … I never asked or anything. From confused. Listen to the answer on 5FM > I’m getting unwanted nudies from a girl *** hahaha this was a cock-up on the question, but totally funny… i was going to post [...]
No sex on 5FM
The question: I’ve been with my girlfriend for about 7 yrs now and the sex is as dry as the kalahari. Sex was great for the first 3 yrs but then it just disappeared. She doesn’t ever kiss me the way she used to or touch me in that way. I have to basically force [...]
A NSFW hello to Monday :: littlegirlyone
not exactly monday, but hey at least i’m blogging two days in a row! getting back into the swing of things etc etc. the one i’ve got for you today is pretty awesome. it’s from a woman that tumblrs at littlegirlyone and blogs at littlegirlyland. she’s got a daddy thing and is into ageplay and [...]

